Call it whatever you want - socially inept, a bull in a social china shop (my personal favorite), confusing, confused, an imposter, masking, a wolf in sheep’s clothing - many of us are working very hard at getting it right (whatever it may be) while inadvertently acting like a robot wearing human skin. 

Faithless people find calm, quiet, or contentment deeply unsettling, which is why we are always starting BLEEP.